Do you ever feel you are trapped in the same cycle of madness? Or, sadness? Even despair? That you just keep making the same mistakes in judgment? In choices? In decisions of importance?
Well, who doesn’t feel this way at times? So, what’s the cause for this? Why do we just keep repeating the same mistakes? Why do some people get out of one abusive relationship only to step right back into another? “Why,” as Saint Paul so pointedly put it, “do I do the evil I wish to avoid but the good I long to do, I do not do?” (Romans 7:19).
I suspect it has something to do with our stubborn resistance to learn the lessons life’s experiences are designed to teach us. Again, in Christian teaching, Saint Paul said, “All things work together for good…” (Romans 8;28) meaning, “There are no mistakes,” as E. Kubler-Ross repeatedly reminded us.
There was a time when I vehemently rejected such an idea. No more. “So,” you ask, “how do you know that what you’re experiencing is designed to teach you something of importance? That it’s given to take you into a deeper understanding of yourself? Or, that it’s fashioned so as to create in you a keener consciousness of the Divine?”
You should know that what you’re experiencing you must simply because you are experiencing it. Period. What more proof do you need? Besides, trying to figure out whether what you’re going through you need to go through changes not the fact you’re going through it.
Why not look for the lessons life’s experiences are designed to teach you? In Buddhism, there’s this teaching as well…that what you’re experiencing will never completely disappear until the lesson is learned. The names may change. The circumstances may show up in slightly different clothing. Like the proverbial rabbit in the magician’s hat, however, the lesson you must learn in order to evolve…to become more completely who you really are…to know Source herself…or, to be happy yourself…will just keep appearing. Again and again.
Today, do not resist what appears. Instead, peer deeply into it and ask, “What have you to teach me?” See what happens.
Blessings this day my friend.











